My dearest Valerie wrote a very personal blog entry today that I suspect was quite cathartic for her. It ended up being cathartic for me as well. And though it wasn’t music related, and neither is this post, it made me step back and evaluate just how grateful I am for the friends I have in my life and I want to publicly recognize my best ones.
Valerie - you allow me to be outrageous, you make me funnier, you remind me that hair and make-up isn’t evil, you give me laughter-induced tummy aches, you’re my 4 a.m. emergency call, if I ever need it, with you I can be wonderfully silly or an emotional wreck, you gave me back my laughter, you call me on my bullshit, at the end of every work related fight we’ve cooled off together with a smoke and it has never once affected our personal relationship, I can tell you everything while never being forced to explain myself, you’ve never let me quit
Josh - you never try to solve my problems for me - you just listen, you often take better care of me than I do myself, you make me slow down, you’ve taught me the fine art of napping, when I snap at you, you let it roll off your back, I never have to ask for your help - you see when I’m running out of steam and you just roll up your sleeves and jump right in, you never let me quit, either
Jeef - we’ve seen each other through some seriously rough shit, you constantly keep me on my toes with your intellect, you answered all of my tearful, homesick calls when I moved to NYC, you help keep me educated about music, you’re always excruciatingly honest with me, you’re the one that I know would defend me to the death, you’re the one that inspired me to get into the whole music malarkey to begin with, you make me a better writer
Brian - you’re the one who keeps me going when I want to give up on everything music, you always put your money where your mouth is - literally and figuratively, you’d do anything in the world to help me realize my dreams and goals - no matter how lofty, you’ve taught me the importance of passion and you’ve taught me that I can actually make a difference
And my to friends and acquaintances (in no particular order - swear) Jen Nabb, Gregory, Solis, Andrea, Merritt, Rich, JDW, Travis, Dave Heidle, Kevin M, Debbie, Jimmy, Bill, Fred, Dave Mofo, Cari, Erik, Pat A, Tony F, Clay, Earl, Dave Little, Anna P, Chris G, Reagan, RJ and Dave P - you came when no one else would, you played when no one else would, you believed when no one else would, you helped when no one else would…and you still do. It’s astounding.